When it comes to sex, each person is one world, and each couple is another. For this reason, if there is no good communication between the two, it is very normal to make sexual mistakes. Plus, misinformation or wrong information can lead many men to make mistakes during sex. The following are common mistakes men make during coitus and how they can avoid them.
Neglecting the Clitoris
The clitoris is a key sexual organ for female orgasm. For this reason, not stimulating the clitoris during sex is one of the most common sexual mistakes. However, it is not enough to stimulate the clitoris. It must be stimulated properly. In this sense, you should remember that it is an organ with thousands of nerve endings and that if it is touched or rubbed too suddenly or with too much intensity, it can generate pain.
Going Too Fast
Among the most common
sex mistakes made by men, this is probably the most well-known. Indeed, many men consider penetration and orgasm as the goal of sex. However, for full sex, foreplay, caressing, kissing, and cuddling are just as important as the orgasm itself. For this reason, do not rush and devote time and effort to the before and after.
Asking: “Did you Come?”
For women, achieving orgasm is different. Plus, anyway, sex is much more than orgasm and offers equally satisfying pleasures. A sexual relationship that has had no orgasm is also a sexual relation. It hasn’t failed if one of you hasn’t peaked.
The typical question, “did you enjoy?” can only have two results. On the one hand, the woman is uncomfortable having to answer and ends up answering what the man wants to hear, and, on the other hand, the man is exposed to his insecurity in bed by posing such a question.
Lengthening Intercourse
If going too fast is also a sexual error, so too is lengthening intercourse. Sex is not a question of quantity but quality. According to a study, intercourse is balanced if it lasts 8 to 13 minutes, short if it goes for less than two minutes, and long if it lasts about 10 to 30 minutes. Either way, it should last as long as the couple wants. Both partners should both feel satisfied and enjoy it, as long as it lasts. Now that you know these common mistakes, you should do your best to avoid them completely and keep your partner satisfied.…